Stalking is a serious crime not taken lightly by the UM Police Department. The following guidelines are intended to help you protect yourself, but are not a substitute for police involvement. You should report stalking to the police so they can assist you and attempt to arrest the stalker.
Florida Statute 784.048 makes stalking illegal. It says:
Any person who willfully, maliciously, and repeatedly follows or harasses another person commits the offense of stalking, a misdemeanor of the first degree, punishable as provided in s. 775.082 or s. 775.083. Any person who willfully, maliciously, and repeatedly follows or harasses another person, and makes a credible threat with the intent to place that person in reasonable fear of death or bodily injury, commits the offense of aggravated stalking, a felony of the third degree, punishable as provided in s. 775.082, s. 775.083, or s. 775.084.
Any person who, after an injunction for protection against repeat violence pursuant to s. 784.046, or an injunction for protection against domestic violence pursuant to s. 741.30, or after any other court-imposed prohibition of conduct toward the subject person or that person’s property, knowingly, willfully, maliciously, and repeatedly follows or harasses another person commits the offense of aggravated stalking, a felony of the third degree, punishable as provided in s. 775.082, s. 775.083, or s. 775.084.
Any person who willfully, maliciously, and repeatedly follows or harasses a minor under 16 years of age commits the offense of aggravated stalking, a felony of the third degree, punishable as provided in s. 775.082, s. 775.083, or s. 775.084
Means to engage in a course of conduct directed at a specific person that causes substantial emotional distress in such person and serves no legitimate purpose.
Means a pattern of conduct composed of a series of acts over a period of time, however short, evidencing a continuity of purpose. Constitutionally protected activity is not included within the meaning of “course of conduct.” Such constitutionally protected activity includes picketing or other organized protests.
Means a threat made with the intent to cause the person who is the target of the threat to reasonably fear for his or her safety. The threat must be against the life of, or a threat to cause bodily injury to a person.
There are three general types of stalkers: intimate partner stalker, delusional stalkers, and vengeful stalkers. All three are annoying, scary and potentially dangerous. Intimate partner stalkers can’t let go. Delusional stalkers have had little or no contact with their victims. They have false beliefs that there is a real attachment to their victims. Vengeful stalkers are potentially dangerous because they are angry with their victims. They believe their victims have wronged them somehow and are seeking revenge.
Victims must try to understand the type of stalker and his or her motivation.
Protective orders or restraining orders are papers that tell the stalker to stay away from you. Keep in mind that they are only papers. They will not protect you from a stalker. They do serve a useful purpose. Protective orders create a level of proof that the stalker has been informed to stay away from you. The stalker can also be arrested for violating the protection order.
Possession of a protective order does not mean you can let your guard down. If anything you should increase your awareness. The order may make the situation worse. If the stalker violates the order, remember that the police probably will not arrive until after the violation occurs. If the stalker does violate the order, call the police and file a report.
A judge issues protective orders, and the State Attorney’s Office can help you to file the request. It is not an easy process, but is worth it in the long run to help prosecute the stalker.
Be watchful for some of the warning signs. A new romantic interest who shows possessive behaviors, an unusual interest in your schedule, checks up on you often, or always wants to know where you are and who you are with may become a problem later on. Someone who pays surprise visits or seems to show up everywhere you go may be creating coincidences. Be careful with how you proceed in these types of relationships. Find out more about the person. If you become concerned, remember to listen to that little voice inside of you. If you want to end the relationship be firm and decisive. Don’t try to let the person down easy; it will only make things harder.
If you think you are being stalked on campus, contact the UM Police Department: 305-284-6666.